To want a perfect marriage is a perilous voyage and I know everyone wanted to share the journey with a real keeper. Mr. Right must show at least little signs of the list of should-be(s) below:
1.) Mr. Right should be seriously funny. It would be a journey less of a weight if there are more happy moments than sad. We,women, are more inclined to mood swings; a valid excuse for an intentional tantrum during a monthly agony. 🙂 During these trying times, Mr. Right has to have a full-packed humor to send his girl laughing and change moods from bad to good.
2.) Mr. Right should be unbelievably honest. Women have an extraordinary gift of intuition; we know when our man tells the truth or when he lies. I don’t need to expound on this, but might I tell every women to just follow their instincts. I did it myself. 🙂 Another perspective on this is that your man must tell you truthful comments on things he might find not good on you even if it hurts; for improvement.
3.) Mr. Right should be incredibly patient. We, women, always want to look good all the time and it is a very time-consuming activity. One way to tell a patient man would be during these moments. Men find these things very boring stuffs, but if your man just lets you take your time, then you got yourself a candidate – Unless, unless he’s the one who wants to do your make-up. That’s another thing! haha 🙂
4.) Mr. Right should be voraciously indulging. Oh wow, this one I love to look out for! He has to give anything I want. 🙂 Kidding aside, what I mean with this is that Mr. Right has to be your pillar of strength; he has to be someone who pushes you to give all your best in everything you do – at work, at home. He has to inspire you to do beautiful things. It really feels good to know that someone is always at your back when you need a tap of recognition or when you need someone to fall back on in times of failure and never judges you for it.
5.) Mr. Right should be undeniably faithful. And loyal, and pledges his total allegiance to you. If at any point in your relationship, you find moments where something fishy is going on, never find excuse to discount these moments; just because you love your man, you play blind and deaf to his wrongdoings. You will surely suffer big later. It would really, really hurt if you’ve already invested all your trust and love on an infidel.
6.) Mr. Right should be extremely loving. This should have been on the list first and foremost, but I meant to put this last as it is the summation of the list. Every item above means love. If he makes you laugh, if he is truthful in everything, if he is patient with you, if he inspires you to do good all the time, and if you feel he is totally faithful, then you got yourself a real keeper! 🙂 He loves you in every meaning of the word. 🙂
I might sound like a dependable love adviser and all – but, these are all the descriptions of my husband (haha). As I was going through the list, I was thinking every inch of how I see my other half. I found it so easy to make love advises after all. 🙂
My entry to the Weekly Photo Challenge: Treasure last week inspired me to write something about it on this week’s Weekly Writing Challenge: Object; all about the object on my left hand ring finger, my wedding ring. 🙂